I'm
having trouble with my mother. I graduated 2 years ago and live in my
own apartment. However, whenever I go home my mother treats me as if
I'm a child again. She wakes me up early for breakfast, asks where
I'm going in the evening, and wants me home by 11 p.m. What should I
do?
The first thing you should do is make your mother know that you are a grown up person, then you might let her understand that you are disapointed with the way she treats you.If she does not change tou may use more severe solutions.
ReplyDeleteCarlos Gómez Barragán.
In my opinion you should tell your mum how you feel but if this
ReplyDeletedoesn´t work, your only option is not going home and call her more. You can wait and see if she realizes that you are not her little baby any more.
Well, I think it is normal, because your mum miss you and she has been treating you like that for a long time, so the best thing you could do is to speak with her and let she know that you are too much old enough to receive that kind of treatment, or if you go occasionally to your house,get used to it.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all you should tell your mum that you´re a grown up man and you know how to assume responsabilities. Therefore you should show her this with actions, for instance , one day that you visit her you could treat her by making her breakfast and showing her that you´re responsible.
ReplyDeleteIf I were in your situation I wouldn't look at it in such a negative way. Instead, I would sincerely appreciate the fact that your mother is so overprotective because it means that she cares about you and loves you. I would recommend you to try to put yourself in your mother's shoes and try to figure out why she is behaving in that way. i bet she just misses you as it has been a while since you left the nest and you hardly ever visit her. So, make your mommy a favour and give her the most sincere, lovely and charming hug you have ever given. I am sure she will understand.
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